Tuesday, March 15, 2011

Let's Talk.

As marriage is right around the corner, there has been a load of stress/problems/situations that have been arising, and like it or not.. I have to face those problems. The church requires that we meet with another couple, a couple that has been married for a long period of time, and we discuss problems and concerns. Today I was feeling extremely down and as if I cannot go on any further. There were a load of problems that I held in, okay so I did not hold them in..I tried communicating to my other half, but he tends to not listen to what I am saying. Today I was basically required to release all my thoughts and feelings because this was the whole purpose of the meeting..and boy do I feel 200% better! I walked out of the meeting confident, happy, and ready for what the life throws at our soon to be marriage. Sometimes you need to talk it out so that both parties are on the same page, but it truly did help the both of us because we had another couple there to remind us both of what we were/are doing correctly and incorrectly. Today was a learning experience, and I am realizing how much the church/retreats/meetings are helping our relationship, and helping me as a person.

Goodnight =)

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